一律建议分手

CONSTANCE 陈康堤 无需多言《一律建议分手》 CONSTANCE 陈康堤继出道曲 “doll” 后，接力推出首支广东单曲《一律建议分手》（英文歌名：stop calling!!）。在出道作“doll”中亲自作词后，今次找来 知名填词人黄伟文 为她的首支中文主打歌作词。新歌延续摆脱「有毒关系」的主题，但将焦点从爱情中的纠缠转向跨越界线的友谊。 “doll” 更多把角色描绘成一个被困在操纵关系中的傀儡，而《一律建议分手》则展现了她坚定的立场，拒绝被卷入那些都与自己无关且不必要的闹剧或情感负担。 歌词讲述被当作「情感垃圾桶」时的沮丧。以旁白身份反驳不断倾诉分手闹剧的朋友，拒绝扮演拯救者或「灾难管理者」的角色。并划清界线明确表示其他人应该处理自己的烦恼，而不是把别人拖入其中。 同时歌曲的核心也宣扬独立和自重；透过拒绝陈腔滥调和恶性循环，坚持离开这种人和事并守护自己的「清冷气场」/「Cool Aura」。传递尖锐而充满态度的讯息：别再指望我来处理你的烦恼了──自己处理吧。 《一律建议分手》由音乐伙伴Ernest Choi制作，他也参与了“doll” 的制作。从风格上看，这首歌融合了各式各样影响CONSTANCE的音乐元素：以Synth Pop为根基，融入了2000年代Pop Music的大胆能量，更融入了摇滚甚至新金属的元素。尽管歌曲是多样化的融汇之作，但表达方式依然犀利而独特——开创了在粤语乐坛中比较罕见的独特风格。 与前作 “doll” 一样，《一律建议分手》的MV亦由Mo执导。 MV将CONSTANCE塑造成一个极致的「酷女孩」：独立、睿智且情感超脱的化身。 MV亦呼应着歌词，展示拒绝被他人爱情失败所拖累的姿态。《一律建议分手》是一份自我保护的宣言，展现CONSTANCE及女生们该如何重拾能量，并传递出歌曲中尖锐的信息：stop calling!!   CONSTANCE “stop calling!!” Following her debut single “doll”, CONSTANCE returns with her first Cantonese release, “stop calling!!” (Chinese title: 《一律建议分手》). This song, written by renowned lyricist Wyman Wong, is her first to feature lyrics authored by someone else after she wrote her own English track "doll.” Continuing the theme of breaking free from toxic ties, the new song shifts focus from romantic entanglements to friendships that cross boundaries. While “doll” portrays the artist as a puppet trapped in a manipulative relationship, “stop calling!!” shows her standing firm, refusing to be pulled into unnecessary drama or emotional burdens that have nothing to do with her. The lyrics capture the frustration of being treated as an emotional dumping ground. The narrator pushes back against friends who constantly unload breakup drama, refusing to play the role of rescuer or “disaster manager.” Instead, they set boundaries, making it clear that others should deal with their own mess rather than dragging them in. At the same time, the voice asserts independence and self-respect. By rejecting clichés and toxic cycles, the narrator protects their own “cool aura” and insists on walking away. The message is sharp: stop leaning on me for your chaos — handle it yourself. “stop calling!!” is produced by longtime collaborator Ernest Choi, who also worked on “doll”. Stylistically, it’s a fusion of her wide-ranging influences: rooted in synth-pop, infused with the bold energy of 2000s pop, and touched with flashes of rock and even nu-metal attitude. Yet, despite this eclectic mix, her delivery remains sharp and distinct—carving out a style that feels unmistakably her own, something still rare within the Cantonese music landscape. The music video for “stop calling!!”, directed by Mo, who also helmed her previous music video for “doll”, presents CONSTANCE as the ultimate “cool girl,” embodying independence, wit, and detachment. Dressed in street-chic fashion, she navigates stark concrete-and-metal stages where chaos unfolds—friends collapse in heartbreak, phones ring endlessly, and papers pile up like emotional debris. Yet she stays unbothered, her calm poise contrasting sharply with the chaos around her. Mirroring the lyrics, which reject being weighed down by others’ romantic failures, the video is a manifesto of self-preservation, showing CONSTANCE reclaiming her energy and radiating the song’s sharp message: stop calling.