星宇轩《世界名人英文演讲-Be honest with yourself》[MP3_LRC]

[00:00.00]90听音乐网 www.90T8.com  [00:00.71]Be honest with yourself [00:06.01]When the topic of honesty comes up [00:08.55]The general tendency is to think about our relationship with others [00:13.27]We understand the need to be honest with people [00:17.27]If you cannot trust your neighbor to say the truth and your neighbor can't trust you to say the truth [00:23.25]What sort of social life will [00:24.55]That produce if parents don't trust children [00:29.39]And children don't trust parents [00:31.81]What sort of family life will [00:33.45]Result it is understandable [00:37.11]Then why we have to be honest with each other [00:40.47]Honest day with yourself beyond honest stay with others [00:45.77]However have you ever considered that your first responsibility is to be honest with yourself [00:52.21]If you cannot be honest with yourself [00:54.41]How can you be honest with others [00:56.63]If you can't confront the reality of your own life [01:00.45]How will you confront the realities of the lives of others [01:04.79]If you cannot face the truth about yourself [01:07.93]How can you tell the truth to others [01:11.21]The best you can be [01:12.68]Will be a hypocrit [01:14.17]Who can remove the speack of dust in the eyes of others [01:17.53]Without regards for the log of wood and his own ice [01:21.84]Honesty with yourself as a way of life you have to master [01:25.50]If you want to become the person [01:27.14]You want to be there are four areas where you need to be honest with yourself [01:33.00]If you aren't to make progress in life be honest about your strength [01:39.41]The first step to improvement and progress in life is critical self assessment [01:46.11]If you're not honest about what you can do and can't do [01:50.19]You will never improve be honest [01:52.97]Enough to admit what your strength are [01:55.61]There are two errors you need to avoid [01:58.68]First is to understate your strengths [02:00.94]To reduce your responsibility [02:02.40]Second is to overstage your strength [02:05.86]To make yourself look good [02:06.52]It is by taking up responsibility that is s taking up sponsibilities that are intend them our ststgthth that we grow and become better understating your strengths may make your life easier [02:18.55]But it will never help you become better progress in life [02:22.77]Comes when we take responsibilities [02:24.93]As we take responbilities as much as our strengthth [02:28.07]And we go through constant practice [02:30.57]Hohowever it is important [02:32.31]Not to overstge strengths [02:34.57]When you over state your strength [02:36.33]You lose the opportunity to actually improve and increase your strength [02:41.47]The fake can never compare with the real a strenggth [02:45.11]You disguise to look good and learn it will never serve you in the long term compared to a strength [02:51.47]You actually developed do you want to grow and become the best version of yourself be honest about your strength [03:00.27]Don't overstate it [03:01.49]And don't understate it be honest about your weaknesses [03:05.15]This is where you need to be brutally honest with yourself [03:09.83]We all have weaknesses [03:11.91]There's a great strength in admitting our weaknesses [03:14.81]It provides opportunities to grow however just like your strength [03:20.23]Don't underestimate your weaknesses [03:22.83]And don't overrestimate them when you're over estimate your weaknesses [03:27.99]You will become too harsh with yourself [03:30.03]Then miss many opportunities [03:31.73]Thinking you cannot do it when you can [03:34.53]There's nothing more sad and backward [03:36.83]Than thinking you cannot [03:38.33]When you can [03:39.55]On the other hand when you underestimate your weaknesses [03:42.73]You deceive yourself then miss opportunities to turn weaknesses and strenggth [03:48.36]The other problem is that people who are not honest about their weaknesses [03:52.44]Tend to have problems and their social relationships be honest about your weaknesses [03:58.48]Be honest about your goals [04:00.96]Your goals are valid but not all of them are valid now or in the next five years [04:07.17]Be honest about what you can achieve now [04:09.91]What you can achieve in the next five years and in the next twenty years is a waste of time and strength [04:17.11]When you seek to achieve a five year goal in six months or six months goal in five years [04:24.38]Honesty about your capacities and priorities will help you to live in ordered life [04:29.60]Where you can have short term [04:31.42]Medium term and long term goals [04:35.41]When you are dishonest with yourself [04:37.41]You become anxious and forget that life is meant to be lived in stages and what you do in a year is not what defines your entire life [04:46.47]It allows you to take the long term view and live life step by step like a man climbing a letter [04:55.44]Honesty with others [04:57.42]When you have learned to be honest about your strength [05:00.54]Weaknesses and goals [05:02.68]Then you can be honest with others [05:05.38]You cannot give what you don't have